On pages 125 & 126 the chapter is discussing social media and online misuse of children bashing teachers or students with hate sites and spreading maliciousness around and ways administrators decide punishments to fit crimes committed. BUT, the section goes on to say the following:
Quote #1 “Courts have stated clearly that a student should be free to speak his mind when the school day ends and that school administrators’ disciplinary power must be restricted to the boundaries of the school itself” (Hobbs, p. 126).
I think this is total malarkey! Said STUDENT is enrolled at THEIR school, and therefore his/her (the administrators) responsibility during the years the student is enrolled. Our school preaches respect, responsibility & volunteerism, the three keys to success for a happy and healthy life. Our students are taught to emulate these ideals and to practice displaying them 24/7. Just because a student leaves at the end of the day, doesn’t mean they can/should go off and cause mayhem and chaos, beating up kids on their way home or posting hateful things on their facebook page. These students are our responsibility, so I strongly agree that an administrator should have the right to suspend, expel or punish any student that is currently under their charge (in or out of school), for any behavior they exhibit that goes against our code of conduct or expectations we hold for them as human beings. These are lessons children need to learn, that their behavior reflects positively (or negatively) on the school and that they should be held accountable for their actions. Students should not feel that their behavior in the world outside of school should be different than that in school. I'm referring more to the standard of responsibility and personal conduct. I think these "Courts" need to step into the lives of middle schoolers and delve deeper into what happens in the real world, than worry themselves about punishing the people that are DOING SOMETHING for these kids. (teeth grinding, scoff, aggrivated!).
Quote #2 "Social power is the ability to gratify our own human needs through manipulating the quality of our relationships with various people around us" (Hobbs, p. 127).
This is disturbing! Why do we feel (as a society of people) the need to seek gratification of any kind through online connections and relationships with people on that digital community, like facebook. Why is it so addicting? Why is our society becoming so self absorbed for one, or so interested in essentially stalking others, some people they barely know, could care less about, or complete strangers who may or may not be the actual people represented in the profile?! I will say that personally I get sucked in like the rest of us, and when I only intend to check facebook to see if I have messages or anything pending, tend to be on WAAAYYY longer than I had planned. I find myself often sick with the time I waste on social media. Sometimes I reflect and am more concious about the length or frequency of my time, so adjust accordingly and perhaps go several days without being on at all, but then I fall down the rabbit hole once again. It is a cycle hard to break unless one truly dedicates their efforts in abstaining. I know this "social power" is not necessarily one of online community, but also of a person's own status in their real-life relationships and community. The hierarchy exists regardless of the location. A person has a social ranking, if you will and stands somwhere in it, depending on the group assembled. I understand the want/need to be liked and popular, an issue old as time itself, but I fear the steep slope our young generation are plummeting down. Selfies, hashtags, emojis - are all artificial and fake (in my opinion). I know our children are able to communicate deeper thought beyond what they express through this text-based and simplified language. I worry that social media is driving them too hard into themselves, their appearance, and their "status." How many followers or likes you get aren't REAL problems/goals, or I don't think they should be. Instafamous=Instanarcissistic. VERY concerned! What will all this lead our society? Questions far beyond my scope of knowledge. I just know this art teacher is #peemypantsworriedaboutourfuture, bahahaha! I know I didn't necessarily use the almighty hashtag correctly, but a friend of mine said she uses her hashtags to be funny/ridiculous, and I like that, feels wittier and more upper crust to me.
Quote #3 "Adolescents are developmentally focused on taking risks, pursuing experience for the sake of experience, and seeking out novelty, complexity, and intense situations. That's how they learn the skills they need to become independent adults" (Hobbs, p. 128).
I agree with this, to an extent! I went through phases just like any adolescent, made mistakes I learned from, figured out who in my life was trustworthy and worth holding on to, etc. I feel like kids today are taking "rebel" to a whole new level. College students at WVU are getting so drunk and revved up (or drugged up) and are setting fire to things and causing riotous mahem in Morgantown over competition, pride, whatever you want to call it. To me, these students need a swift kick in the pants and a HUGE reality check. I am glad primary riot culprits were expelled from the school. NOTHING condones this behavior, NOTHING warrants idiocy! Obviously there are many things lacking in these young-adults' lives, but this mistake they can't erase or run from, this folly will follow them forever. This embarrassment will never go away. The shame of being that depraved and un-controllable will be a source of discomfort for them indefinitely. I luckily made it through the hardest years of peer pressure and bad influences from people who wanted to live in the moment and be free. Hello, that's how you get stds, pregnant, raped, beaten up, or even die! When you let your guard down to "just have a good time." More often than not, these situations lead to devastating consequences, where students are left with hearbreak or regret, and I wish so hard students could learn to just say NO! Go with their gut feelings and avoid, avoid, avoid! Who knows how many coutless depravities would be avoided if more students were stronger and said no and went home to a lame quiet evening in. Guaranteed they would've had more fun, controllable fun! I may be too much of a stuffed shirt or buzz kill, but I can honestly say I don't regret or miss the experiences I could have had. I knew my health and future was massively more important than a few moments of the thrill of "being bad."
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